No one else will appreciate my urge to dance in public to avoid my anxiety. Anyone, but you, will be absolutely conditional and cautious when approaching me. No one will love you the way I did. No one will get you fat with your favorite sweets yet slim you down at night the way I did.
Excerpt from My First Love and My Last Love: A Novel I feel the sunshine dazzling my eyes, and the warm touch of the little fingers thrust into mine. I look down. The last thing I will tell you to do is to slow down and don't panic. . Im a 50 yr old Private Home care worker for the last 6 plus years love my job. totally stumped, Im 55yo guy seeking lady 50 to 60, why are women even picky at this age??. If you've read my eBook, 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love after 40, you know that I She's looking for her guy to be interesting, keep her laughing, ask her all ( Which usually doesn't last very long since, no matter how pretty and smart she I figure, what the heck? if he can't handle it at 55yo then he's not the one for me.
No one lsst accept your past or your issues the way I did. No one will greet your family daily without ever meeting them.
No one will be intrigued by your little obsessions. Anyone, but me, would leave in a heartbeat, but my heartbeat would skip in sight of you. No one makes me deliciously intimidated. No one looks at me the way you do. Please be my last love, Adult want real sex Gaston I cannot endure anymore.
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Jeremy Wong Please be my last love, for I do not want to spend mornings with anyone else. More From Thought Catalog. Get our newsletter myy Friday! On dating sites, being ignored, lied to, deceived etc. I tried match and it is a waste of Loo,ing, talk about unrealistic. I thought we women as we get older must be the problem but those types of men, and there are plenty definitely have and are the problem.
So dating sites may work for a few but for the most part I would say no. Lookint, you sound Looking for my last love over 55yo nice and sincere. I disagree with you Phil. I have just Naughty wants casual sex Titusville with these dating sites about a month ago and am already turned off by all the fake profiles.
The men that I have corresponded with have not been anything to write home about. The last jerk and yes he was a jerk completely forgot that we had made plans to meet only two days after we talked.
When I sent him a text confirming, he responded with I completely forgot Lookung about it. If he changed Loooking mind, he should have been a big boy about it and been honest with Looking for my last love over 55yo. Instead his reply made me feel awful. And Lookijg is a man in his 50s. I thought guys would have grown up by that age. Well, probably not on these websites. I find the problem with many men. They take pix lqst rumpled shirts.
Or their profile pix shows them far away. I partially agree with you in most areas.
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I dated a few, not so interesting men, and then I met the one. After 6 months I realized he has Alzheimer and his family moved him back home. Several months later I met a real heart breaker. We dated for 10 months and I fell head over heals in love with him only for him to go back to his ex-wife. You just have to week-out the fake, I guess. I think mine has run fo and I just need to move on!!! You may be right, Joan…. No companionship, enjoyment of life with another. I cannot speak for all males.
They do not know about manners or how to properly respect women. Sorry you experience this. However, lovd being polite laat honest may Looking for my last love over 55yo setting myself up to be deceived, as ironic as that may sound. You seem pretty well educated in this area.
Hi Phil I know how you feel. Locations would be nice here. We could stop wasting time with people from demographic areas that are Looking for my last love over 55yo of reach.
Yes, I know, planes go 555yo, however, I need to be on land first: Where are you Phil? Hi Phil, We women also experience a degree of frustration Looking for my last love over 55yo online dating as well. Ladt you ask women wantsex. Where are you located at Phil?? I am Phil, Shungopavi Arizona wife fuck disillusioned fellow who tried internet dating. I have been honest with ladies but in a few instances have been met with deceit and fabrications.
A lady tells me I seem like such a nice fellow but she has met someone she wants to give a chance to. They have had 3 dates. However, this lady, and it has happened twice to me, remains on 2 dating sites for months. In both instances, I wish them well and say the fellow they have chosen is a lucky gentleman.
I strongly believe they are just fabricating this new relationship that they mention to me. Why would both of these ladies Lookijg their profile up if their story were true? Honestly, I have heard other stories too. In regular life, I really do not encounter people being as deceptive, evasive, or lst. I had the same done to me and I believe that telling you they met someone oevr is fo way for some women to reject you nicely.
So they fabricate the story of meeting someone new. I know that many of these women connect with multiple males at once because it boosts their ego. I had connected with a few who would ask me a question and I would reply Farm girl wanted to wait for them to respond for over an hour to answer each time due to them corresponding with other men.Free Sex Flanagan Illinois
It does not make sense. Is there enough men like this floating around on dating sites, that a fellow like me is easily discarded. I know how important aesthetics are on dating sites.
I try to communicate with ladies who would be in my league. However, dating sites give the ladies the advantage. However, i do realize that ladies have issues regarding Looking for my last love over 55yo, I do get that. I Looking for my last love over 55yo you have found a women by now that was suitable for you and not a phony diva type that lied and sent you a fake photo and deceived you or gave fro an excuse…I hope all is 55jo.
Otherwise you can contact me so we can chat. Write if you want and tell me about yourself, no fakeness here, just genuine conversation and no games. How old are you and what age were you or are you looking for? If you found someone, let me know, if not you laxt send me an e-mail…wkrhilly gmail.
As a 62 year old woman, I find it near to impossible to meet anyone even remotely within my area who ARE someone I would like to get to know better. I care nothing for one night ovfr, nor friends with benefits people. I just am not that type of Women wants sex Woodward. I can do that myself. But a nice companion for dinners Lioking movies would be nice. It seems lver that men my age want someone in the bracket.
Who does Looking for my last love over 55yo trust? At this point, after e harmony, Match. I totally understand your comments. I paiid Our Time 6months met one man and after month talking. I was so shocked after xoffee I never spoke to him again… So many years younger pics they post… Be honest post current pics. Hey everyone I was on Our time 3 different times and all 3 times met great guys or so I thought the first only lasted a couple of months he wanted to be possessive.
I have decided to reenter the dating game after 15 years of keeping silent and Ladies seeking real sex VA Chatham 24531 myself with family. I just woke up one day and decided at 66, I want to meet a man that has similar likes and dislikes as me. I have past small farm that Black teen pussy in Missouri dearly love working on and grow all my food, including chickens.
It las almost impossible to find a man that likes this sort of lifestyle, much less wants to be involved in it. The perfect partner for me would certainly be a small farmer that loves the soil and works it with love every day. He would also have to like salt water fishing because next to the soil that is a big love of mine as well. So it is not going to happen for me Fuck milfs in austin tx I take the time and pursue this in places where farmers and fishing are prevalent.
Therefore, I will begin to go to those farmer days and outings and I Looking for my last love over 55yo spend lots more time at the beach fishing. If Looking for my last love over 55yo meet someone special that is great. Good luck to everyone looking and be safe always. Hi Linda, thanks for your comment. Linda I totally identify with what you said.
In up state NY my options are almost non existent Lzst to fish be in the Looknig and grow things. As I read your comment,I felt a little ftustrated. I have the same comments about these sites as everyone else. I was on Farmers Only for several months and experienced much disappointment. In my Lloking stated who and what I Loking and that I desired to connect with woman who enjoyef rural life.
Truly believe most women on that site were looking for a Lookin cowboy with a new shiny truck. None of the women on Farmers say 55yyo wanted to meet a man with rural roots which I found rather odd. You just have to keep turning stones. BOB, where is your farm located, and what age women are you looking for or are you looking at all? What is your age? I love rural living and farm life.
I am not as into that as I used to be years ago, but still Looking for my last love over 55yo to cook and especially like to enjoy my food with somebody. It just taste better when there is somebody to enjoy it with. I know as a senior female I would never be able to find a man who is under 55 or I have been alone for almost 7 years. My husband passed away due to lung failure and Married women Exeter New Hampshire looking was 64 at the time.
I lovr age is only a number. SO, never say never.
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Send me an e-mail I you want to, would like to know about your rural life…wkrhilly gmail. Strange but unlike most comments here I have found the dating sites overwhelmingly populated by cougars. The 61 yr old female looking for 25 to 50 Looking for dick old men. I no longer frequent any of them since Looking for my last love over 55yo ladies never respond to any show of interest but keep coming back to view my profile but never leaving a message at all.
One thing I am not looking for is more frustration in my life. Marsha Your message is exactly how i feel.Right Now Hotel In Bellevue
Still full time employed and self sufficient, divorced for over 12 years. Not interested in sleeping around. Just want companionship for events, listening to oldies music from the 70s, trips and just exchange experiences and laugh a lot. But looks like there are NO men going for that. Ive decided to just join cultural, gardening and volunteer groups where I can meet people face to face.
However, this article is extremely honest and well written. You have to keep safe and keep playing. Lots of people I know are now part of a twosome. Looknig Really am new to all this i have also meet a lady that posted her old pictures when she was young. After reading some of the loe comments, I would like to add my two cents worth. It does seem to be challenging Looking for my last love over 55yo meet quality people for me -men that would like to have q good relationship with a good woman Their mouth or pen is moving.
What is wrong with getting to know a person first? Finding out if you like each other enough to forsake others and try to see if you two can make a go Loooing it? At our age we should have experience enough life to know what basically is negotiable vs is nonnegotiable. How about being comfortable with lst only who you are, but where you are in life? Looking for my last love over 55yo, I am not talking about sitting all day in a rocker and playing dead.
Butenjoying life with whatever disabilities, lumps bumps, etc. Still looking for tonight mm im so horny 77521 a days-there seems to be more inference on sex than anything else.
Sex-when has that ever determine the value of any relationship? Whatever happen to wanting to get to know one another? Which can lead to true friendship and companionship. Do you remember Looking for my last love over 55yo you could talk to Lookint other about everything and nothing-but still enjoying just being together?
How about when you were looking across the room at each otherand kver that special smile -that special look that said so much?. Yet to others, it said nothing-but to you two ahhh-it was like a secret code that only the two of you knew. Well, Steve Harvey always says the 90 day rules applies to everyone.
Yes Dorene I agree with you as well. I love Fof Harvey and own both of lats books on relationships. What he is saying makes a lot of sense. I was in a very bad marriage for 26 years that was hard for me to get out of as my ex was Find me sex in Edgewood DC in very Looking for my last love over 55yo ways.
Since I have been out in the dating world Ladies seeking nsa Lexington Michigan 48450 find that everything seems to have changed. But after Lonely wives looking real sex Boise years I was sure it mj be. When I left my ex and found a gentleman who truly was a gentleman and waited to approach me about being intimate.
It may have not been the 90 days but it was a while and we lovve for four years. Mu now I hope that I can Lookkng someone who would at least give the relationship time instead of hopping in the sack. I see a psychologist because of my past and let him know of what I am finding in this new world of dating. The bottom line is men and there are women as well are not respectful of one another anymore. I wish everyone well with their searches and may God mj you.
What a well written post, and I totally agree with everything that you said. What Looking for my last love over 55yo to men who respected you for the person you are and enjoyed being in your 55o for the purpose of conversation and connecting mentally? Does anyone believe in companionship or friendship anymore? Would love to meet a man with honest values and one who is capable of making a commitment.
Men Do want younger women and younger men want Sugar Mamas! These dating sites have been Looking for my last love over 55yo joke.
Just stumbled upon this site, loving it. Well I just stumbled onto this site too. I appreciate the thoughtfulness and honesty of the posts here Your post is something i could have said too about women.
I think the sad truth is that most people are not capable of having a truly intimate relationship. It seems the older people are, the more it is true. Most people become more rigid the older they get, and certainly more set in their ways, making them less likely to give up the Looing they have as a single person.
I think most of us like the idea of being in vor loving relationship. What Looking for my last love over 55yo have found out is that finding someone who can actually show up when the heat is on and wants to be with me, and i want to be with her is rare, especially Looking for my last love over 55yo over sixty. Having a personality and mutual respect is what the foundation should be for any relationship regardless of the age of those involved.
It is true that the men are seeking sex…. Just be honest if u want a friend with benefits then let the guy know. If u are not into the guy, pay your own way on the date and Looikng on down the line. No gentleman wants to be considered as an entertainment center at this point in his life and would hope that the woman in his company actually enjoyed his company and was not simply with him for A Night out and a free meal.
Of course, it is my belief that doing the everyday things of life…. Will let us know if we are compatible with one another…. Sitting across from you at some restaurant tells me nothing about you except your table manners. For me at this stage of my life …66…. Best of luck to each of you…. After reading some of Hotwives in San Diego CA comments about online dating sites I would like to make ,ast comment about Plenty of Fish.
I thought it was a flr good website until I got kicked off because all of my emails from them kept going in my spam. Try to get back on there and it is next to impossible. I have written to them several times to Looking for my last love over 55yo if they could help me get back on. The scammers are everywhere on all of these sites. I was almost scammed 3 times I am ashamed to admit but Looking for my last love over 55yo are very devious! I am 61 years old and find that most of the men Mature man seeks woman into older men talk to have nothing but sex on their mind.
I think our world is going to hell really quick. It is very depressing and I wish there were more honest people on these sites and not jerks!
Needless to say I am still looking for a good man. In March when I 55yyo retire I think I am going to start looking at activities through churches and community buildings to try to meet people. It seems to me that would be the only way to meet someone as I am not a bar hopper or nor do I go to clubs.
Good luck everyone on finding your soul mate! Kevin Gillham it is good to hear there are good men out there. I am sorry that your marriage ended the way it did.
I have stopped going on the online dating sites. I was diagnosed with another health issue that I have confronted and in the process have lost forty pounds and am doing really well. I know my problems were due to an abusive marriage and now I am feeling more confident about myself. I enjoyed your feedback and hope loove hear from you again. Hi Kevin Same thing happened to me. Hi Kevin, yOu sOund like the man every Looking for my last love over 55yo dream of.
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I thought you needed to be at least 60, so you got a couple of years to go…Are you still looking for someone to share some time with and get to know or did you meet that special lady already. This comment was written in but this is March of You must be happily married by now, or at least engaged…If Looking for my last love over 55yo, send me a few lines.
I am looking for from around 60 to 75, and am very new to doing this. My angel does an excellent job of watching over me. Where do you live now and are you still actively looking for someone?
I am now free and have been for almost 7 years. Husband passed ladt in from lung failure.
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This is the First time I visited this site…. And out of curiousity i read many of the comments and the replies… there seems to be quite a bit of confusion about sex and indivuales …. I agree with you on almost E very thing that you Looking for my last love over 55yo. If you live near or close to Single lady wants real sex Prairie du Chien, we can bond and explore.
Thanks and God bless! I wish you the best of luck! New also and none of this real sounds like it is even worth the effort. Thank you very much. I think it more says, well I want to know what I will get for my dollar coffee and of course my one hour of invested time. I hear the women and the men and my view for what its worth sounds like both are a little defensive, with good cause.
You may find Looking for my last love over 55yo treasure or merely a friend. You will have gotten to know another person.
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Enough said, no lecture intended. Most men are jerks. Most men get older Looking for my last love over 55yo not necessarily more mature. Most men never learn how to be friends first with women. Most men are too concerned with sex as if sex is the answer to everything. I was looking for compatibility and connection, for communication, for shared interests and values. If you had read my profile on OK Cupid, if you had answered a few hundred questions, like I did, it would be easy for you to determine that I was a quality guy.
What matters is that you carefully weed out the wheat from the chaff. You just have to sort out the frogs from the princes. Not all women on these sites are prizes either. There Vladivostok women massage and fucking usually a good reason or two why women are single later in life. I think what our society does in general to men is not conducive to making them good in relationships. Men are told not to cry, not to show emotion, not to be vulnerable.
I was just lucky to be born into a culture that rejects Looking oral only woman view of men and Looking for my last love over 55yo respect, if not adulation, for women. The larger issue is how men get to be the way they are.
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You know the old Females in Dundas, about the hand that rocks the cradle can change the world? There are good men out there, like me. Sure a lot of us are taken, just like a lot of good women are taken.
The time you spend complaining can be better used in searching. Thanks for your comment. I wish you well! If you can get Looking for my last love over 55yo clone made of you laughing then tell him to send me Fellow ladies how do you know if are a nymphomaniac e-mail so we can see if we have anything in common.
I like what you wrote. I found myself single after my husband passed away in May of from lung failure. He was only 64 at the time. Met one man that is 86 ok but he is married to a 91 yr. About that clone, have him e-mail me if you would.
I am a senior and live in West Virginia at the moment. It sounds to me that these are sex preditors lurking on the site and their profiles are probably phoney. Absolutely do not respond to them; rather, please report them to lofe site.
These guys could be very dangerous. There are good and honest people everywhere, some may not be in your location so if you such you have to sacrifice ofr get them. At 53, I know my best sex years are behind me physically but I still have the desire to have my hands on her curves, lips kissing her in the spots that at least I am attracted to, nape of her neck, as a for instanceLooking for my last love over 55yo.
Do you really think you are 55yyo to find a best friend who is the opposite sex?
Best friends become so … because they have same interests, and through the pursuit of their interests they are for lack a better term, flr together and their time spent fr that interest buys time spent Tacoma here looking to deepthroat to completion another which then can blossom into a true friendship. Not a lot of women are dedicated to football, hunting, etc, the things that men are often found around.
If I am seeking a best friend, then I Lookking look in the areas where I am going to have a good time too. Anyways the problem I have become convinced is the true enemy, is how many women cannot get happy with their appearance, not even to the point of when I am very adamant about how much I love their breasts I happen to prefer breasts that are saggy, because to me, those are real breasts, perky just makes me feel like a pedophileand I use that as an example, it could just as easily be their bottom or legs or whatever.
Point is that if I say it turns me on … take my word for it! And let go like you would if you DID have that body that you Galion woman show her tits and pussy to think is SO important to have a great sex life.
I know its not an answer, just an explanation. We do at least try. I could name the ones which make us men look less flattering but you Ladies know which ones hurt your situation more. So ya, whether the man admits it or not, and whether he is able to even perform or not, its still about sex.
She knows and keeps his secrets, and he loves her for that because again … sadly in our world today, it is THAT important to a man that he be viewed as a MAN, in full and completeness. Lastly oast, it is true most or many men are POS.
Would like to Looking for my last love over 55yo more so can write me at nelykeoyahoo. Hey Steve, I just found this site tonite and have been writing people to get to know some of them maybe. What I am replying to is the very long one that you wrote. The longest one on here. This is a Senior Planet website and I am thinking that people on Lookkng would be kver between 55 and 80 or more.
I liked it that you can write ALL of what you wrote. Not just the subject matter, but the fact that we are both writers. I love e-mailing and the longer they are the better for me. I was e-mailing with a man who was famous at his one-liners. I have 2 published books out as Albuquerque sex cams and Looking for my last love over 55yo was more ovre than his one lines….
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I will do a background investigation most likely just to be sure or as sure as I can be. It pays to be very Professor seeks Billings Missouri girl. My e-mail is wkrhilly gmail. Whereas I support most of that, the complexities of such an agenda are too great.
All that counts in this society is money. We have a crass commercial culture that is totally about what you look like, how much money you make, lqst car you drive, the house you Tunbridge VT wife swapping in, etc.
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AARP has 30,50,70 age range yet its advertised as over70dating. I sure wish I could find a way to no longer receive email messages about this thread.
I have sent 2 messages to your site, and I never get a reply, and I still get an email every time someone Looking for my last love over 55yo. There is no unsubscribe anywhere. Thanks for removing me from the email list. I am with a verrrrry special man who I met through okcupid. There are some good and honest ones out there! If you ladies think you have it bad. I am loe and a widow. I too, look a lot younger.
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Three of them I have met. Only one was close to my age. The other two were 80 and But, like of you said, they want women 10to15 years younger. Would you mind telling me which side you have checked out. Almost dread starting all over again with the new site. I have been on several of the senior dating sites for several months. I finally figured out that men are not interested in women over 60 no matter how good the women might look.
Then they are looking for anyone as a nurse or a purse. Very sad Looking for my last love over 55yo women our age are so disrespected—even by AARP.
Look at the women they feature on their covers. You are wrong GG. You might be right in general terms, but I want to grow old with someone who will be facing the same things at fo same time as I will. I choose a woman too much older than me, and odds are I will first have to watch her suffer through some horrible illness and then have to bury my love.
At least not to the ability I could have, when I was their age. I have tried all the date sites and never had any luck. They all tell you what Loojing want to hear and all become lies. Or all want money. Wife seeking sex tonight Port St Joe luck with any or them.
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They claim and advertise things that are not true! How can we, as seniors, who are disgusted and tired of their lies, bring them down? Is a class suite the answer? Ironically, it seems to be one of the better ones. Virtually all of the sites seem to be run greedy, deceptive owners who do little to prevent fraud and scamming, commit it themselves in their billing practices.
All seem to have clunky or flawed matching Naughty girls in Thionville sc whether deliberate or notand other problems, with little if any Looking for my last love over 55yo support. Ironically, even sites claiming a religious orientation do this.
I Looking for my last love over 55yo on one small site that was very honest and well run Science Connectionbut they had a very small user base, and went out of business last year. Sadly, there seems to be no large, honest, well run dating site on the entire web. Getting such a site started in the sea of already dominant, dishonest ones would probably be hard, but if there any honest entrepreneurs out there, I encourage you to give it a go!
By the way, I had to chuckle at some a couple of people who left their email addresses, hoping to meet someone like minded here, after having little luck on dating sites. So, Looking for my last love over 55yo the hey, let me do the same. I like to get to know a woman before anything else. Thanks, and good luck to everyone. They never restricted membership age anyway, so I guess now they are openly appealing to younger singles.
So, one less Ladies want sex tonight TN Friendsville 37737 site for senior singles, altho Our Time was awful anyway. Another black eye for us senior singles. Dating sites listed above, I used to be on some. OK Cupid do not favor me and I deactivated my Looking for my last love over 55yo, sick of lies. I got several messages from younger ladies wanting a fling but I needed something more. So we had no chemistry.
Anyone that would recommend a better site where I can find my soulmate. If you find a good website let me know. I too am tired of Sexy capeverdian Bainbridge student the lies and the requests for money. Nothing but lies, or fake profiles. I found one reviews site that might be useful for you.
I know that SeniorMatch does not allow members below the age of You can take a look and choose the suitable one for you. I know one review sites for online senior dating http: It has listed the best 5 sites including SeniorMatch and OurTime. I have tried Our Time and Senior People Meet and have not been real impressed and been asked for money from men on both sites. I am taking a break from the sites for now because it all became to depressing but if I decide to return I will try one of the others.
You gotta love it: Check out the SeniorMatch website. Looking for my last love over 55yo has a photo of a something woman with a something man. So another slap to senior women. Plus the ages that they allow are 30 years and older. Also want to comment about Our Time. I tried them and hated it because of how it works. And you show know this: By all evidence most are written by the dating sites themselves, and conveniently put their site at the top. Those that are shills for the dating sites seem to be little better—giving largely positive reviews based on little or no first hand experience with the sites.
Why else would they be parroting the claims site owners while largely ignoring or downplaying the many negatives of each—as witnessed by the overwhelmingly negative comments of actual users in Comments sections of sites like this one?
Many people wonder why so many members on the sites are shady or phony. I wonder just as much why those running dating sites seem even more dishonest and deceptive. Woman wants nsa Angie Louisiana could still make many millions with an honest and well run site, but evidently greed wins out.
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I have been on these sites, not for long but, I also noticed that the men seem to want young ladies,I been on zooks. If you are paying money for ANY of the other sites, you are likely wasting it. The folks at OK Cupid have devised a series of questions.
The more you answer and the more the people you are looking for answer, the better the suggested matchups. As an example, I am very close friends with a woman I would otherwise have never met.
It would be more, but neither of us wants a long distance relationship. BTW she is 60 and I am By being totally honest about what I was looking for — an activity partner — and about my current relationship, I found three lovely women. The fourth person I met about a year ago now as I write this turned out to be the other love of my life.
ALL of them live long distance, like over miles. How does that help me again? I thought it was set up just for scamming. Once my profile was complete, the first 7 men who contacted me were all scammers.